13] Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. [14] As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, [15] but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, [16] since it is written, “You shall be holy, for I am holy.” (1 Peter 1:13-16 ESV)Man, at his most basic, most infantile, is ruled by his passions. The satisfaction of desires and the relief of pain are primary motivating factors for the young brain. It is natural for a newborn to cry when it is hungry or uncomfortable, and it has little to no concern for others. Just as Object Permanence is something that must be learned by the child, so must things like Consideration and Empathy. These abstracts are not part of an innate knowledge-base the child is born with, they are things that are learned. We have all known of a child whose favorite word was "mine." Mankind, at his core- left unattended- is naturally inclined to be ruled by his passions.
Since The Fall of Man, our natural inclinations have become contrary to our intended design. While we were created to worship God alone, we naturally worship ourselves. Idolatry is our default. But in Christ we find freedom from the default. This becomes one of the great challenges of the christian life. Once we recognize our need for a savior, we spend the rest of our lives in the process of Sanctification, fighting against our flesh, working to conform our will to that of the Father's.
I have counseled many young men who find themselves stuck in this place, desiring to be holy, but drowning in repeated sin. This frustration often results from a lack of proper preparation. Peter's words are valuable here for one looking to find a life of holiness. It is not simply enough to focus on eliminating the sin action- in fact, this can be counter-productive! Peter does not herein focus on actions at all, but on the focus of the mind preceding the action. Before you act, prepare your mind; before action is required, prepare your mind. Do not wait until you are in the moment to combat your sin, for by this time for many, the battle is already lost. No, you must first focus your mind, setting it on Christ and the hope you have been promised as his sons and heirs. Actions will flow out of the state of mind.
The way to fight sin is on the battlefield of the mind first. In training the mind to be holy, the actions will follow suit. Verse 14 speaks of being "conformed to the passions of your former ignorance." First, let me point out that these passions are past tense. They are of your former self, but now in Christ you have been freed from them. You were once ignorant, so these things were all that you knew, but now that Christ is at work in your life you have been given the wisdom to know better, so prepare your mind, and in the moment you will not fall so quickly into the old ways as you once did. It takes time, but the preparation and training of the mind to a new default, the default of holiness, is the first step towards defeating the flesh.